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Friendship is important. It makes you happy and proves to be a get-away when you are tired and down. But not all friendships are immortal. They end and you need to accept that. But letting go of someone you trust and love is very difficult, there is no doubt in that. People tend to find ways and methods to hold on to a friend who has let you down. But is that feasible?

Here, in this article, I will tell you about 5 questions that you must ask yourself before you say goodbye:

  1. Why exactly are you saying goodbye?

This is an important question. You need to sit down and relax. Then, with a calm mind, you need to ask yourself as to why exactly are you willing to let go. You need to know the justification behind such a crucial decision. It should not be irrational. You can mentally jot down the reasons and see whether they are big enough to say goodbye to a friend?

  1. Will it be okay to ignore or forgive and move forward?

Sometimes, these two words can work magic. If you think that forgiveness or ignorance will be easy, then probably you must let that be. But if you think that these two are just not possible in your case, you must probably let go.

  1. Have you clearly thought of what you need out of this friendship?

Sometimes, you and your friend are not really on the same page. When the two of you want different things, there will be misunderstandings. For this, you need to sit down with your friend and talk about it. You need to clearly mention your expectations and hear their point of view. After this, you both can decide whether it is best to let go or stay friends.

  1. Will you be happy without them in your life?

Maybe, you let them go but that does not let you smile. Will you be happy with your decision? Always question whether this decision will make you happy. If it keeps you calm and happy, probably you should say bye. If you think that it will leave you sad then probably you must talk it out.

  1. Has this thought crossed your mind for the first time?

If the answer to this is yes then probably your friend has been doing the same thing again and again. In this process, you have been hurting yourself. Might as well let go of this dreaded experience. If the answer to this is no, then you can just talk to your friend about it and clear out the issue. The thing is, if it has happened once, you can give it a shot again. But if it happens again and again, probably there is not going to be any change. It is always better to let go than to be hurt again.

We all know friendship is a beautiful bond but sometimes it becomes very difficult to hold on. These are a few questions you need to ask before letting go of that friend. You need to be rational and practical at all times. These pointers will definitely make it very clear and easy for you to decide.